Diaper Pail (Diaper Genie or similar)

Infant play mat / gym

Diaper Bag

One that Dad wouldn't mind carrying

Stroller blanket bag

Not sure what these are called, but a really cozy liner to tuck him into his car seat and stroller this winter.

Sleepers, hats or other clothes

Books books and more books!

Used books are just as good!

Changing Pad and 2 covers

A waterproof one that you just set on top of a dresser

Baby Thermometer, infant nail clippers, baby brush and comb

And any other first aid or care stuff we should have that i don't know about!

Sun shield for car

Washcloths and a hooded bath towel

Soft ones for the baby

Vtech "Safe and Sound" video monitor

They sell these at Babies R Us, Walmart, and Sears

Travel changing mat

Pampers swaddlers and Huggies baby wipes

based on family recommendations..

Bottles, sippy cups, divided plates, baby silverware, pacifiers

Rachel recommended Aventi bottles and sippy cups? I'll be breastfeeding if i can, but may need to supplement or for pumped milk

Mobile

If you are looking for decor inspiration, we don't really have a 'theme' to the baby's room. It's going to be vintage-y i guess if anything. Quilts, and vintage letter cards, that kind of thing in soft pastels.

Sheep skin for rocker

Tranquil Turtle

most toy stores sell them - by the same makers as sleep sheep

Back seat mirror

Cradle pad